Thank you for all of your support and kind messages.
I am now able to confirm the arrangements for laying Tom to rest. The service will take place on:
Wednesday 3rd January, Holy Trinity Church, Ystrad Mynach at 12:30pm. Followed by burial at the Graig Fargoed Cemetery, Bedlinog at 2pm.
Afterwards you are all very welcome to join the family to raise a glass to Tom, to celebrate the life of such a wonderful man, at Llancaiach Fawr Manor House at 2:45pm.
(Tom’s wishes were that you all come along and you feel comfortable, whether this is formal dress, informal or colour).